This is just a brief rundown of the situation:
She is 24, ex-alcoholic, ex-heroin user and former sex worker. Has not done any of these things for 41/2 years.
Suffers from severe anxiety, panic attacks and depression. Very opressed by her boyfriend who she does not even like or love, only with him because she is scared of being alone and scared she may go back to her drink, drug and worker days.
He is 47, uses extreme controlling behaviour against her telling her what and when to eat, what tv shows she can and cant watch, what music she can and cant listen to. She has no other friends apart from me cause he wont let her have other friends.Threatens to go back to using heroin or commit suicide if she leaves him. Deliberately makes himself sick so that he can get her to look after him. Never flushes the toilet even after doing a shit, he makes her do it. Pisses all over the floor and toilet making her clean it up. Forced her to become vegetarian and is about to start forcing her to become vegan. The only good thing he has done was to get her away from her old life of drink, drugs and sex working.
Everytime I see how unhappy she is I get really upset and then VERY agro to the point of almost doing something stupid.
He has stopped her from seeing me now because I challenge everything he has brainwashed her to beleive and she was starting to see things clearly.
She and I were friends before he came along and I reckon she was happier before than what she is now.
I have told her that to be truly happy and free she must get rid of him. How can I save her from this f**kwit?